This past weekend I attended my first ever writers’ conference. #MSCWC was a huge blast in Collierville, Tennessee.

Friday

I was a bundle of nerves at first–no surprise there–but I am so deeply glad I didn’t let that stop me. I drove down on Friday after dropping the kids off at school, which left me a few hours to relax in my hotel. I’d brought my laptop and everything I would need to do a little writing on the WIP, but I was too keyed up to focus. So instead, I flipped on the TV and painted my nails.

Tim and Al from ABC's "Home Improvement"

(Funny side note: I couldn’t figure out how to change the channel. The hotel was undergoing renovation and the floor must have just been opened back up for guests, because the remote was still in plastic packaging with no batteries. I didn’t want to call the front desk to send someone up to program the remote {because Stranger Danger… I mean, honestly. Doesn’t that sound like the beginning of a horrible story Keith Morrison would narrate?} and there only seemed to be a single power button. When I turned it on, it was tuned to CMT. So I watched two and a half hours of that old Tim the Tool-Man Taylor show. And then when I was leaving the room and trying to figure out how to turn the television back off, I discovered that the single button controlled volume and channel, too. Ay yi yi.)

The Friday evening event was a meet & greet, and the whole way there I prayed that I’d meet at least one other person who was new and nervous so we could help each other out. And isn’t God good? That’s exactly what happened. I sat with a table of ladies and as we chatted, I hit it off with a new friend who writes cozy mystery!

Cake displaying "God's Plan, My Pen" at MidSouth Christian Writers' Conference

If I go back next year, I’ll know not to eat dinner right before the meet & greet, because they had a lovely spread of food (including this beautiful cake, which had a screenprint of the theme artwork by one of the board members) and I was too stuffed to eat a bite. I’ll also try to remember to take more photos! Afterward, I went back to my hotel for that rare luxury in a busy mom’s life: peace and quiet and a full night’s sleep.

Speaking of sleep: this was so amazing. Is this everywhere now, and I just need to travel more? The hotel had a white noise machine built right in on the nightstand. Genius–especially since there was a train track right by the hotel than runs, apparently, at 5:15 a.m. daily.

Saturday

Saturday morning I had just one objective: to locate a decent cup of coffee. (Hotel coffee is just always a letdown. Isn’t it?) Google came through when I asked it for “good coffee near me” with a recommendation for the Donut Hutt.

Do you even really have to ask if I got a donut? The coffee was amazing–apparently, they have their own roaster who makes them a signature blend! And they had a huge case full of fancy donuts, but I tried an original glazed and a long john and can vouch: they were excellent. If you’re in the Memphis area, jonesing for a java fix, head over to Donut Hutt.

Bag of donuts and cup of coffee beside an Erin Condren Life Planner.


Caffeinated and sugared-up, I was ready for the day. The conference is run so well and with so much kindness. I can’t say enough about how wonderful my experience was.

I met up with my new friend from the meet & greet, and we lined up together to sign up for one-on-one appointment. There was a bit of free time to mingle and chat, and then we heard Bob Hostetler‘s first keynote.

He was SO encouraging. I wish I could bottle up the effervescent feeling of sitting in a room full of writers, hearing someone urge us on to keep working, keep striving, keep our eye on the ball. (There were some baseball metaphors. I’m not a sports person, but I managed to keep up!)

Bob Hostetler gives the keynote address behind a clear lectern at the MidSouth Christian Writers' Conference.

Following the keynote, there were three breakout sessions with four offerings in each time slot. I attended an editing class called “Cut the Fluff,” by Shannon Vannatter, an author website class by Linda Fulkerson, and a craft class on “Creating Characters with Personality & Pizzazz” with Patricia Bradley and Johnnie Alexander. All three sessions were so helpful! I came away with notes and handouts and email follow-ups. It was really exciting to start brainstorming how to put their excellent advice to use on my current manuscript.

The final keynote was followed by a Q&A panel discussion with two agents, two publishers, and an editor. Attendees were given paper to submit anonymous questions, and the experts each weighed in. It was really helpful (again, I took tons of notes) and it was also very heartening to see their interactions on stage. It felt like a tiny peek behind the curtain. Yes, these folks act as gatekeepers in the industry. Yes, they have exacting standards and it can feel like a LOT of work to meet the requirements. But they’re also really kind, genuine, normal people who love great books and are happy to meet writers… even newbies like me.

If you’re looking for a conference & you live in driving distance from Memphis, I wholeheartedly recommend the Mid-South Christian Writers’ Conference. You can visit their blog all year long to get great encouragement and information, and sign up to be the first to hear their plans for next year’s speakers and presenters.

If you’ve ever been to a writers’ conference, what surprised you the most about it? Or if you’ve never been–what worries you the most about going to one? Drop me a comment below!

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Today I’m participating in the Insecure Writer’s Support Group blog hop. Click the image below, or follow along the list at the bottom of this post, to follow other insecure writers and read their responses.

This month’s prompt asks, Whose perspective do you prefer to write from: the hero/protagonist, or the villain/antagonist?

My fiction is centered around realistic women who face everyday obstacles. So far, I’ve only written from the heroine/protagonist’s perspective — because my characters aren’t going up against actual bad guys. There are no cloaked witches or creepy villains or bands of dragons or invading hordes of aliens to defeat. Most of the women in my stories have faced their biggest antagonists in the form of circumstances to overcome and misbeliefs to correct.

Maybe someday I’ll craft a novel where the main character faces down an external antagonist, but right now I’m really enjoying exploring the ways women can be our own worst enemies.

Have you ever heard Andrew Peterson’s song, “Be Kind to Yourself?” (That song never fails to make me cry, for one thing, so go download it to your phone and add it to your Spotify playlists.)


There’s a line that asks, “How does it end when the war that you’re in is just you against you against you? You gotta learn to love, learn to love your enemies too.”

See, I think there’s something inside all of us that longs for stories about defeating lies and overcoming the circumstances that tell us we can’t or won’t or don’t measure up

That’s how my life feels. My enemy — my antagonist — isn’t a scary monster or a criminal bad guy. It’s my anxiety, my anger, or my lack of faith. It’s my fear in the face of a diagnosis or the way I react to past traumas. And I have a hunch I’m not the only one. What’s more, I have a hunch that the way I’ve battled those enemies — the lessons I’ve learned — would resonate with women all over the world.

So that’s what I write. I hope & pray that my stories, whenever they hit the wider world, will be uplifting and encouraging because of the way they speak to the “villains” we all face.

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How on earth does a gal keep a big house looking (and functioning) mostly-organized most of the time?

It’s all about rotation of effort, y’all.

If I went through my house trying to organize every nook and cranny each and every week, I’d be mad and exhausted and I’d never be done. Furthermore, I’d probably get so overwhelmed I’d run away from home, and then you know how organized my family would be? 0%.

A few years ago, I saw a blogger’s 52-week organizing challenge and the women in my small group at church all agreed to try it. For at least eight months (I think, if memory serves, we fizzled out at the end of the year) we got a weekly email and worked on the area of our home the blogger had identified, and we texted each other before & after pictures–which was hilarious and motivating, for sure.

That group of friends wasn’t up for repeating the challenge, but I’ve stuck with that strategy ever since.

At the start of the year, I brainstorm a list of fifty spaces in our house that need to be overhauled. Yours will be unique because our homes and families are all so different, but here are mine in 2019:

    laundry area
    craft area/supplies
    wrapping paper
    cubbies
    my desk
    guest room closet
    pantry
    fridge & freezer
    kitchen: wall cabinets
    kitchen: island cabinets
    pets
    great room: drawers
    great room: bookshelves
    under-stairs closet
    buffet
    master bathroom cabinets
    first aid/medicines
    makeup/cosmetics
    my closet
    my dresser
    my shoes
    jewelry/accessories
    purses & luggage
    upstairs hall closet
    Susannah’s toys
    Susannah’s closet
    Abigail’s Toys
    Abigail’s Closet
    Jonas’ Room
    Jonas’ Closet
    rec room: books
    rec room: movies
    homework nook
    upstairs bathrooms
    garage: niche
    garage: shelves
    workout area
    emergency preparedness
    holiday decorations
    home inventory
    recipes
    phone storage
    annual family album
    wills/legal docs
    addresses & contacts
    filing cabinets
    home inventory
    family calendar
    back to school
    Abigail’s baby book

So, a few things might have jumped out at you. Some of these are going to be QUICK & EASY. It should take me 20 minutes, maybe 30, to use a critical eye on my shoes and donate the ones that I’m not wearing anymore. Some of these make sense in certain seasons of the year (for example: the holiday decorations get organized as I use them; the address books gets updated when I send Christmas cards).

And did ya notice that my 7-year-old STILL has an incomplete baby book? Ahem. Yeah. She’s noticed, too. (It is true, that thing they tell you about how you’ll overdo it with your first baby and then perhaps fall a teensy bit behind with your third baby. TRUE as can be!)

The fact that it’s STILL on this list should make it clear that this is a tool, but it’s not magic. Every year, some of these are easy for me and some fall off the beam.

I copy this list onto small stickers, and then each week when I’m planning, I choose one organizational area to focus on for the coming week. If it’s going to be stressful and crazy anyway? I pick one of the 20-minute jobs. If it’s going to be a week when I have lots of downtime, I’ll pick a longer one. Or during good weather I’ll tackle the garage. Change of seasons makes a good time to handle the kids’ closets. 🙂 Make sense?

If I get to the end of the week and the job isn’t done, the stickers have removable adhesive so I can carry them forward into the next week, or I’ll just re-write the task on a new sticker and save it for another time.

And let me explain why I do fifty and not fifty-two. We are incredibly fortunate to be able to go away on vacation most years for one week if not for two. Even if we don’t go anywhere special, I like being able to do a little less around the house during spring break and fall break when my kids are off school.

I really do try to keep most of these areas organized as we go. But no matter what, with five people and three dogs and the pace of life –somehow we do seem to end up with clutter we don’t need, arrangements that get crowded, and mess that needs to be tidied. Using my yearly rotation helps me worry less about the spaces that are getting out of hand, because usually that means they’re up next in the rotation anyway. The spaces that are spic-and-span probably JUST got attention, and everything else is at least in a livable state for a little while longer. 🙂

What’s the hardest part of whole-home organization for you? What strategies work for your family in this season of life?

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In my last installment of #OrganizeMe, I shared the way I block off my time each week to have the best chance at accomplishing all I want to. It’s the only way I’ve found to “fit it all in,” and even then –sometimes life happens, and it doesn’t “all” get done.

If you’re single, that might be all you need to get organized since once you master your own time, you’re set. But if you live with others –whether roommates or family– odds are, a big aspect of organizing your time revolves around coordinating the schedules of multiple people.

There are apps that some folks love for keeping a husband and wife (and even their kids, if they’re tech-connected as well) on the same digital page. If that’s the approach you’re looking for… sorry, you’ve landed in the wrong place.

I know, I know — we are each walking around with a computer in our pocket that has more power than what used to take up a while building. I hear you. I adore my phone’s GPS feature and even though I still break out my DSLR for special occasions, my phone’s camera has become my BFF❤️. HOWEVER, using the phone’s calendar/notifications/calendar-linking-apps just doesn’t work for me. My brain literally just loses information I type into my phone calendar.

But I have three kids (in 8th, 4th, and 1st grades this year) and three dogs and one general surgeon husband. We have plenty of appointments, activities, and obligations to keep track of. This is what works for me:

An Erin Condren Life Planner open to February 2019 is shown above a large wall calendar open to February 2019.

The open spiral-bound book is my Erin Condren Life Planner. (I’ve written about those before.) During the last week of the month, I sit down with my ECLP and a large wall calendar. This one is a 2018-2019 academic year that I ordered online. (Here’s a similar calendar.)

I carry my ECLP with me everywhere when I make appointments, sign the kids up for lessons or teams, buy entertainments tickets, and everything else that needs a date and time in our lives, so it’s chock-full of information about the upcoming month. If you’re comfortable setting appointments and reminders on your phone, you could use your phone calendar for this step of the process.

I transfer everything to the large wall calendar. Now the caveat: I like stickers. And I like to color-code with pens (orange for me, blue for Chris, green for Jonas, purple for Susannah, pink for Abigail, gray or black for whole-family). But hear me: you do not have to do anything cutesy to make organization work for you. Use a plain black ball-point pen if that’s more your style! The key to making this work is simply to put every time obligation in one place.

February 2019 wall calendar with color-coded time obligations filled in.

This is how you’ll know that you and your spouse need to divide and conquer next Friday night to get everyone where they need to be. This is how you’ll be able to say “yes” or “no,” confidently, to plans with a friend because you’ll already be aware of your spouse’s time commitments. This is how you’ll be able to predict that your introverted self is gonna feel overloaded and need a day of rest — or that your extroverted self is gonna feel squirrely after too many days alone with your kids and you’ll need a night with your friends!

The only things I don’t note on this calendar are some of my appointments that take place during the work/school day, because they don’t impact anyone else in the family, and our regular Sunday morning and Wednesday evening church plans, because they are so routine. I do write in special church events or services and days when I’m scheduled to serve.
Once everything is in place, this calendar is hung in our kitchen where everyone can see it.

February 2019 wall calendar hanging on cabinetry beside a coffee maker. Two clothespins above the calendar hold school notices and a receipt.

The clothespins above the calendar are attached to the cabinetry with 3M removable adhesive (extra strips from packs of hooks). I use those to keep school newsletters, library due date receipts, birthday party invitations, and other kid-centric paperwork that comes through the house.

What’s amazing is that the calendar fills in even more over the course of the month. We’re busy! Every family is.😊 But the saving grace of this kind of organization is that it allows you build in the margin you need, at this season of your life.

When we had littles, I didn’t schedule anything late in the evenings because bedtimes x3 took a lot out of me, but I did host a ladies’ Bible study in my home that doubled as a playdate for the kids. Now that my crew are in school, we still need to keep a reasonable bedtime, but they can hang much later.

The date nights on our calendar used to be evenings for free or cheap and usually at home; now we plan pretty regular nights out with a babysitter.

We now really love having folks over for dinner, and keeping our month organized helps me see when we have space to do that and who we haven’t shared a table with yet (or recently). Chris and I both enjoy getting out with groups of friends, so at some point this calendar will probably have at least one “Supper Club,” one “Mom’s Night Out,” and one “Dad’s Poker Night” in place.

Whatever season you are in –and let me encourage you that they ebb and flow!– I am 100% sure that the organization of a family calendar will be a help and a blessing.

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Every year for the last several, I’ve kept a log of the books I read in my planner. I started tracking them one January when Abigail was a preschooler and I realized that I hadn’t read ANYTHING for fun in ages. I was in a rut — I read parenting books and breastfeeding books (I was a peer counselor for nursing mothers at the time) and Bible study books and that was it. I made myself a goal to read one fiction book per month that year. Not only did I hit that goal, but I got my reading mojo back!

As a kid, I used to check out book stacks as high as my little arms could stretch, pinning the top book with my chin on the walk out to our car. I’d devour them in a few days and beg my mom to go back to the library. (And repeat, ad nauseam.) After that first year making myself a reading goal, I was back, Jack.

Nowadays, I regularly read 60+ books per year. Some of those are parenting, Bible study or spiritual formation still. (I’m no longer a peer breastfeeding counselor, so that topic is off my shelf for now.) Some are craft books, as I try to expand my understanding and skill as a fiction writer. Some are fiction, some are nonfiction. I try to hit multiple genres and revisit old favorites for re-reads.

One of the awesome things to come from tracking the books I’ve completed is that it facilitates making book recommendations to friends. I love being able to tell someone to check out certain titles or authors — and before, I was prone to forgetting names. (It isn’t helpful to say, “Oh, Jane, you’d love this book I read last summer! It was about a woman. And there’s a dog in it. And, um, the cover is green. Good luck tracking that down!”)

Here are a few of my favorite reads so far this year, in no particular order. (There’s still a stack about 24″ high on my nightstand, and I usually get several books finished during the lazy days of Christmas break. I guess I’ll have to add those to next year’s list.)

1. The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo, by Taylor Jenkins Reid

This author is a masterful at creating characters you’ll love –or at least, won’t be able to look away from, even when they’re making cringe-worthy choices. Evelyn is a glamorous, old-Hollywood star; the character conjured up images of Marilyn Monroe and Elizabeth Taylor. There’s a bit of steamy scandal in this one, so if you prefer your books squeaky clean you might want to skip it. But if you do, go check out some of Reid’s other titles – they’re all pretty fabulous.

2. The Hideaway, by Lauren K. Denton

Ahhh. This book is sweet and Southern and full of family drama. I loved the setting, which is practically a character in its own right, and the intergenerational viewpoints are a blast to read.

3. The Peculiar Miracles of Antoinette Martin, by Stephanie Knipper

If you enjoy anything by Alice Hoffman, I think you’ll like this story by Stephanie Knipper. There’s an element of magic along with a gripping narrative of a mother and daughter who can’t always communicate – but who need each other in really beautiful ways.

4. The Funeral Dress, by Susan Gregg Gilmore

This book totally slayed me (in a good way). It’s everything I hope to be someday! The folks in the Appalachian town are relatable and realistic. The friendship between two women – one young and one older – is poignant. This book handles pregnancy, loss, grief, and love with skill.

5. Why I’m No Longer Talking to White People About Race, by Reni Eddo-Lodge

Ms. Eddo-Lodge is British, and her take on race is brutal, honest, and a needed piece of the conversation. Particularly if you’re one of my white friends: go read this book.

6. The Atomic City Girls, by Janet Beard

This novel is historical fiction, and it’s just a ton of fun. Even though the setting is deadly serious (a camp where Americans worked, unknowingly, on the atomic bombs that would later be dropped in Japan), the interplay between characters is dramatic and engaging. Every point-of-view character is well-written and leaves you wanting to hear more from their side of things.

7. An American Marriage, by Tayari Jones

People of color are disproportionately sentenced for crimes they didn’t commit. This true fact of American life is painted into an incredible novel – it centers around a young Black couple from Atlanta, only married a short time, when the husband is wrong convicted of a crime. Epistolary chapters trace their relationship during his incarceration, and I can’t give away any spoilers but you’ll WANT to hang on until the ending.

8. The Marriage Pact, by Michelle Richmond

I think this one qualifies as a psychological thriller. (If that’s not where they’re selling it, they should!) This story is creepy, in the best possible way. An engaged woman invites a work client to her wedding as a joke, and the gift he gives the new couple spirals them into a cult-like world. Your heart will race and you won’t be able to put it down.

9. The Almost Sisters, by Joshilyn Jackson

Joshilyn Jackson is one of my favorite Southern writers. This novel has generational secrets and family ties, a surprise pregnancy, and a cosplay Batman at a comic convention. It’s funny and tender and rings true.

10. The Gospel Comes with a House Key, by Rosaria Butterfield

This book wrecked me. It challenged every little part of my introverted Christian heart, and has forced me to consider some new ways of living out the Gospel. I highly recommend it.

11. Southernmost, by Silas House

Silas House’s writing is lyrical and magnetic. His southern settings are gorgeous and vivid. This story is about a preacher whose family and congregation condemn him when he refuses to kick a same-sex couple out of the pews of his church. That in turn sends him on a journey that reveals both his past and his future.

12. Big Magic, by Elizabeth Gilbert

Every creative everywhere needs to read this book. Moments of “I’m not alone” abound, along with more than a few kicks in the pants.

13. Every Waking Moment, by Chris Fabry

Fabry is a prolific author, but this is the first of his work I’ve read. It was beautiful and sweet, full of faith without being preachy. I’ll be back for more of his novels.

14. The Sacred Enneagram, by Chris Heuertz

2018 is the year I discovered the Enneagram, which I’ve already blogged about a bit. This book was the first one I read, and it was life-changing (which is not hyperbole). Discover your type, and go deeper than that – discover how Christian spiritual practices can undo the personality mask you’ve been hiding behind, and how you can live more fully as the person God created you to be.

15. Everybody, Always, by Bob Goff

Love ‘em all. I decided that Bob Goff is an all-around Great Guy and Person I Wanna Be Friends With when I read Love Does a few years ago. His newest work confirms that. Love everybody, always. The essays in this book are light in a world full of darkness.

16. A Spark of Light, Jodi Picoult

Ms. Picoult has never shied away from tough subjects. This  novel takes place in reverse chronological order, with the first chapter describing a moment with an active shooter at an abortion clinic. Each chapter thereafter spools backward, hour by hour, telling the story of the police negotiator outside, the shooter inside, and a number of others who are in the clinic for varying reasons. People of faith are represented well, and the ending will not be what you thought it was. It’s challenging, but worth the read.

17. Home to Holly Springs, by Jan Karon

I think I read my first Mitford novel back in 2002. I’ve loved Jan Karon’s mythical town since that first moment I met Father Tim, his gigantic dog Barnabas, his boy Dooley, and the rest of the characters who call Mitford home. This book (which was published a few years ago, but I got off track with the series so I’m playing catch-up) carries us along with Father Tim back to his hometown of Holly Springs. It’s more than backstory – this novel stands on its own, but if you love the characters Karon has created, you’ll love this book.

18. Inside the O’Briens, by Lisa Genova

What a story! Irish-American cop stares down a difficult medical diagnosis, and then watches as each of his adult children grapple with what it might mean to have a hereditary condition in their family history. This is a guy you’ll root for.

These aren’t ads or affiliate links, just some books I loved. If you care to share something great you read this year, I’m always adding to my TBR pile! Drop me a comment.

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I wanted to share one of my favorite tools for organizing life as a mom: time-blocking. This approach has worked for me in so many stages of life – when I was a new stay-at-home with little kids, when I was homeschooling, and now as a stay-at-home mom with school-aged kids who are away from the house for a few hours each day.

Time-blocking is a way to give yourself a routine that includes plans for all the major things you need to get done every week – without setting a rigid, minute-by-minute schedule. Here’s my current time-block layout for this school year:

YES, I know: I’m an ultra-nerd who likes color coding and owns a lot of pens and highlighters. You can do this with pencil and the back of your kids’ school newsletter, though. (Well, maybe keep the school newsletter on the fridge so you won’t miss the Book Fair. But you know what I’m saying. It doesn’t have to be fancy. Use what you have.)

I like using a legal pad because I can do 3o-minute time slots from the time I wake up until my kids’ bedtime. I write times down the left margin and the five weekdays across the top. (I don’t currently time-block our weekends, but you could if that fits your family!)

The first thing I write in is school drop off and pick up. These are the rails on the road of my kid-free time, so I need to respect the time they take. Next, I put in two hard and fast time commitments: my volunteer afternoon at my kids’ school, and the Ladies’ Bible study I joined in the fall.

Then I considered time for fitness. I have been attending a group fitness class, so it went on the weekly grid, and then I added two days to run and one day to bike.

On Wednesday, I typically try to schedule errands and appointments in the morning while our housecleaners are here working their deep-scrubbing magic. I like seeing them and chatting each week, but then I try to get out of their hair because they work as a great team and I don’t want to disrupt their flow. When I get home, the lovely clean house makes me want to tackle my chores – I stumbled across an Instagram friend who calls the day she manages all the home stuff that tends to pile up her “lady of the house” day. It cracked me up and I borrowed it!

That left me with Tuesday, Thursday, and Friday afternoons wide open. Thursday is Chris’ day off, and we don’t get hang out and go on dates every week – but I like reminding myself of the opportunity. So it’s penciled in for day dates! Then I have blocks on Tuesdays & Fridays I labeled for chore catchup (’cause let’s be honest, there’s always a few more chores to tackle!), hobbies, projects, and friends.

Y’all. That has been the very best investment I’ve made in my mental health this school year. I’ve been more conscious to schedule time with friends – a few coffee dates, breakfast dates, lunches, walks, and just hanging out with people – every week. The reality is that I can’t spend three hours, two days a week, just chilling with my homies. I do have some adulting to do. BUT having that reminder in my time block reminds me to try to get together with someone each week. It’s also reminded me that the projects and hobbies I love don’t just happen – I have to carve out time to do them.

Back to the blocks: at that point, I had two tiny spots in my school-day that were blank, so I filled them with “write.” I haven’t used them as consistently as I would like until November started and I jumped into another NaNoWriMo. But that big block at 5:00 a.m.!? I’ve been writing almost every single day thanks to this commitment. It’s been wonderful! And at 6:00 a.m., I step away from my fictional world and start my morning routine. (It actually also includes my quiet time – prayer and reading my Bible – too. I can’t remember why I didn’t write that down initially.)

The after-school/evening section undergoes the most shifting. When I created this page, my youngest was playing baseball. That season has ended, but in a few weeks she is heading back on the ice for skating lessons one night a week and her big sister is starting art lessons one evening a week.

This tool has been so wonderful for me. I love the flexibility — if a certain doctor can’t see me on my preferred Wednesday, then I try to shift all my errands to whatever day the appointment needs to be, so that I can still focus on utilizing one day to be out of the house a bunch and another day to stay home and do my projects or chore catchup.

Over the next few weeks, I’m going to share more of the ways I stay personally organized and keep my family organized! Check back soon.

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MICHELLE NEBEL

I write uplifting women’s fiction woven with threads of faith, grace, and Southern hospitality. My blog is where I share a glimpse of my life, and I hope you’ll find the thoughts here encouraging!

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